and we really don't have to make it harder for each other. i used to have a quote in my room (when i put posters up, in my younger days), that read:
What do we live for, if not to make life less difficult for each other?
the last couple of days haven't worked out that way. my life is hard enough right now without anybody dumping their accumulated garbage on me!
but, as the saying goes "life sucks, and then you die." i revised it to be:
Life's hard, and when it isn't, you die.
moving on now.